09/24/2026
I've never once met a couple who is actually as awkward in photos as they think they are.
If you've already decided that you and your partner are just bad in front of the camera, I want you to know that's probably not true. What you're feeling is normal, first-time nerves, and trust me, I get them too!
Almost everyone tenses up at the start of a session. Suddenly you realize you have elbows and don't know what to do with them (or your hands either!). You smile feels forced and weird.
That's not because you're bad at this. It's because being watched and photographed isn't something people do very often.
My job isn't to get you to pose like a super model. It's to give you something to actually do together, walk, talk, laugh, so your body relaxes and your face follows along. Then I'll gently guide you into small changes, if they're needed, so you never feel like you don't know what to do and you can actually start having fun.
So if you're nervous about being photographed, you're not the exception. You're actually the rule. And it gets easier a lot faster than you'd expect!
Shanle Bowen is a wedding and engagement photographer based in Atlanta, Georgia, serving couples across the Southeast who want their engagement session to feel natural, unhurried, and personal. Couples searching for an Atlanta engagement photographer who takes the time to get to know them before they ever step in front of a camera will find exactly that in Shanle.