09/03/2026
No, I won’t spam my bakery page with this topic. But since my following extends beyond our Red Oak community and Oklahoma, I feel this needs to be shared with everyone. Surviving su***de is a big part of our story. And it is never easy.
Our oldest daughter said it best:
“My parents and sister’s community has been rocked by the loss of a young teen to su***de.
Parents, let this be your reminder to remind your kids to be kind. Remind your kids that they don’t have to jive with or be friends with everyone, but to be kind to everyone anyway. Remind your kids that other kids come in all different shapes, sizes, and colors, and that’s okay. Remind them that other kids may or may not be as privileged as they are. Remind your kids that school may very well be their desk neighbor’s safe place, so don’t make their life harder than it already is.
On the flip side, parents, remind your kids that other kids are mean. Teach your kids how to be tough. Teach them how to stand up for themselves and others because, spoiler alert, other parents forget to remind their kids to be kind.
Lastly, parents, your child may have the brightest light. They may have all the friends. They may be the most athletic, goofiest, etc., but don’t let that stop you from checking in. Like, really checking in. We’ve been through it. We know the mental load in school can be a lot. Depression isn’t picky.
My brother had all the friends. Goofy, the biggest smile, lit up every room. And now we preach about September being Su***de Awareness Month.
One more thing, parents. Even if it’s not you they reach out to, remind your kids that help is available should they need it. Call or text 988.” ***deAwareness