23/07/2025
Sometimes a pause becomes a full stop.
What started as a season of slowing down has gently become something more. A moment to lay it all down, to honour what’s been, and to release what was never ours to hold forever.
This group wasn’t just about meeting every other Wednesday.
�It was about cultivating motherhood: being present in the thick of it, learning to see the beauty in the chaos, and remembering that the days are long but the years are short. That these little ones we’re raising are future adults, and the way we parent now echoes into the kind of people they’ll become.
It was about cultivating connection: where mums could show up, messy and tired and real, and be met with warmth and kindness. A space where the small talk ran deep, where we laughed and cried and held space for one another, and where we were reminded we’re not doing this alone.
And it was always guided by mentoring:words shared in wisdom, not to tell us how to mother, but to help us pause and reflect on who we are becoming as mothers.
So as we come to a gentle close, we carry with us the lessons we’ve gathered..
We carry Linda’s five hopes:
1. To get help for the things that hold us back - our kids deserve a version of us not weighed down by pain.
2. To treasure the moments and farewell the stages - celebrate the milestones for every child, because we never get them back
3. To develop discernment - to know what matters, and what doesn’t.
4. To master the art of not freaking out - because our reactions speaks louder than our words and actions
5. To parent for relationship - so that one day, our grown-up kids will want to spend time with us, simply because they choose to, not because they have to
We carry Deb’s voice with us. Every story she shared, every moment she paused to draw meaning with every honest reflection that made us feel seen. Her wisdom wasn’t just in the lessons, but in the way she told them - gently, humbly, with humour and heart. She reminded us again and again that love is powerful, and we can walk in power too.
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