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No Bell Blues We are wedding planners with an in-house Marriage Officer, Makeup Artist & Beauty Specialist, Photographer, Baker and Musician.

In a nutshell, we are a one-stop wedding shop. It is our goal to be the first and last stop of any bride and groom!

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20/03/2014

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23/01/2014

Bridal Beauty: Head-to-Toe Prep Guide

Hair
Great bridal locks require a little love and devotion. We all know that washing, blow-drying, and heat-styling on a daily basis makes for a messy head, full of split ends and "wispies" (those little broken pieces of hair that stick up from your scalp). Start repairing from the inside out. Experts believe that a diet filled with Vitamin B helps bring out your hair's natural shine (dull hair is actually a symptom of a Vitamin B deficiency). Foods like fish, nuts, and eggs will give you a good head start. On the outside, an invigorating scalp massage and deep conditioning treatment (about 4 weeks prior to the event) not only feels good, but stimulates the hair follicles and adds body. FYI Despite what many bottles claim, there is no way to repair damaged ends -- once your hair breaks, get a trim.

Face
When it comes to the best way to care for your face, there are many schools of thought but here are a few good pointers for common issues. A good beautician can help those fighting a losing acne battle, by administering facial peels to knock out bacteria and oils, get you onto the correct skincare products and providing regular facials. Start focussing on that at least six months before the wedding-your skin will need to adjust to a new regimen. If you're looking to bring a dull complexion to life, the beauty therapist at your local salon or spa can provide a series of facials that clear blackheads, slough off dead skin cells, and improve circulation. But the real secret to great skin? Water. Drink tons of H2O before and on your wedding day to make your face look dewy and radiant.

Eyes
Dark circles and puffiness are common bride-to-be afflictions (all those late nights pouring over the seating chart is bound to take a toll, after all). Since the skin around your eyes is particularly sensitive, be gentle, take off eye makeup with a water-soluble remover (don't scrub), and keep rubbing to a minimum. A nightly application of eye cream, in combination with adequate sleep, will improve the appearance of dark circles and a cool compress once or twice a week (or as needed) helps keep puffiness at bay. During the days before the wedding, steer clear of too much salty food, which can cause eyes to look swollen.

Lips
For that all-important kiss at the end of the ceremony, you'll want your lips to be in the best possible shape. A Vitamin E stick (sold at pharmacies and health food stores) can combat cracks and creases that weather and nervous lip biting can cause. You should also exfoliate your lips at least once a week, to clear away dead skin Wet a toothbrush with warm water and brush lips with a gentle back-and-forth motion. Finally, protect your kisser with sunscreen, as the sun can leave lips looking -- and feeling -- parched.

Neck and Decollete
Since your gown no doubt shows off a little (or a lot!) of neck and decollete, start taking care of this overlooked region as soon as you can. Think of it as an extension of the skin on your face -- but remember that this fragile skin is thinner, has fewer oil glands than the rest of the body, and requires special care to keep it supple and smooth. Exfoliate it with a gentle face scrub every other day, apply a light moisturizer daily, and use sunscreen when heading out in a chest-baring top.

Body
You can get your body in shape without lifting a weight or walking a mile (though both will help relieve stress and whittle away at the inches). From the inside, a daily multivitamin can work wonders on a range of ills -- from digestive issues to sleeping problems to frayed nerves. Vitamins also up your energy factor, making wedding planning easier. On the outside, exfoliation is the name of the game, because it makes skin feel softer and more toned (no gym required!). Use an exfoliator each day, whether in the form of a loofah or a body scrub.

Legs
Your wedding dress might have your legs covered, but that's no reason to ignore them. Shave only after you've softened the skin with warm (not hot) water and use a moisturizing shave cream. One of the simplest rules for keeping them smooth post-shower, apply a rich moisturizer while legs are still damp.

Feet
Sure you'll probably treat yourself to a pedicure before the big day, but you should indulge your feet in sweet treatments in the months leading up to the wedding. Good foot care starts with a little tough love use a pumice stone or foot rasp daily to scrub away dry, cracked skin on heels and toes. Note that feet should be damp, not completely wet -- a sopping foot is too slippery to be properly exfoliated. Then treat your feet while you sleep slather on a thick moisturizer and slip into a pair of socks, which will retain body heat and help seal in moisture overnight. An added bonus to these measures well-moisturized, cared-for feet are less likely to blister in uncomfortable shoes.

10/01/2014

Exciting news! Ds. Jopie Fourie from I Do, I Do, I Do! is now available for pre-marital counselling as well as marital counselling. You can contact him directly on 082 605 7499 or email him at [email protected].

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17/10/2013

Wedding Favour Trends this Summer

As a renowned wine exporting country it is obvious that beautiful wine favours will be first on our list to be reviewed. Most favour businesses offer solid chrome wine stoppers. These stoppers come in a variety of shapes and flairs, it is difficult to single any of these stoppers out as they are all truly unique in their own sense, however if push comes to shove the elegant crystal ball stoppers really stands out this season.

If you are looking for something a bit more quirky and fun, you absolutely have to take a look at the “Head over Heels” bride and groom cork stoppers. Choose the groom, with the bottom half of his black tux, white vest and tails topping the stopper, or let the bride do flips at the table, where guests will get a seldom-seen view of her white gown and shoes.

There is also a wealth of practical favours available. Our favourite is little Demitasse spoons, which has a small heart motive on the stem of the spoon and a cute little tea cup at the end.

We also loved the Heart measuring spoons. Each set of 4 spoons features "measures of love" on one side and actual measurements on the other. The measures of love are very sweet, reading: "A Pinch of Patience" = 1/4 spoon, "A Dash of Kindness" = 1/2 spoon, "A Spoonful of Laughter" = 1/3 spoon, and "A Heap of Love" = 1 spoon.

Favours that double as nametags are very popular and there is an abundance of options to choose from. Examples would be little beaded frames, silver chair place card holders, bells with a heart charm and cute little seashells.

Giving guests something edible is of course still very popular. Give this traditional favour a twist by fillings cute little wire boxes. The wire boxes are available in a variety of shapes, like wire boxes with a ribbon motive that looks just like a mini gift, heart wire boxes, mesh wire boxes with a butterfly etc. These wire boxes can even add to your décor if you place a little tea candle inside and have them lit just before you and your new husband enter the reception hall.

We left our absolute favourite for last. The little magic beans, or “love beans” as we like to call them. These favours consist of a hand-painted flowerpot, a bean and soil. When the bean is planted it grows to show the word “Love” on its first leaf. This is something completely different to the usual favours and your guests will definitely find them amusing.

14/10/2013

The Role of the Stepmother

If you are a bride-to-be and have a stepmother, you may wonder what is the appropriate stepmother etiquette and how much of a role should she play in your wedding. Dealing with stepmothers can cause a difficult situation. A lot depends on how your stepmother and mother get along. If the two mothers get along fine, than your wedding can be planned however you want. But this isn’t always the case. If there are a few issues, these guidelines will help the situation.

The Golden Rule
It’s important for your stepmother to respect your wishes and accept your decisions for the part she’ll play at your wedding.

Talk About It
You need to tell your stepmother what her role is in your wedding ceremony and reception. Talk to her about her feelings and expectations in advance to ease any tension.

Invitations
Typical wedding invitations include the parents of the bride and groom, as one or both sets of parents will be hosting. Stepmothers and stepfathers are usually not mentioned in the invitation unless the bride or groom prefers to do so. However, if you’re stepmother is contributing financially towards the wedding, then she should be named. However, should you and your fiancé be hosting and paying for the wedding yourselves, you don’t have to acknowledge any parents, or stepparents for that matter.

Appropriate Dress Code
Usually, the stepmother should dress in the same dress code as the other guests. If you choose to include her in your wedding, she can wear a similar style or colour as the other mothers, but should never dress to overshadow you or the mother-of-the-bride.

Seating Your Stepmother
At the ceremony, traditionally, the parents of both you and your fiancé are seated in the front row, with stepparents a row or two behind. Seating at the reception can be trickier; but the seating depends on your preferences and this means you may end up having separate tables for stepparents or separate tables for divorced parents and their spouses.

Family Photos
There may be an etiquette problem when it comes to family photos. The majority of photographers will arrange different shots for the parents and stepparents. It’s not common to see photographs with both the stepparents and parents together in the same photo. If, however, you do want a group photo with all the parents together, then make sure the photographer places the moms on opposite ends. Don’t find it strange though if your stepmother prefers not to be in any wedding photos, as this falls in the range of proper wedding etiquette for stepmothers.

May I Have This Dance
Proper etiquette stipulates that your stepmother will take the back seat and bow out gracefully so you can share this day with your parents. Your father will dance with you and your fiancée’s mother will dance with him.

Every Situation is Different
Etiquette rules don't apply to every situation that arises with blended families. The degree of closeness among members of your particular family and your wishes for your big day are most important. Try to relax and enjoy the festivities and do what makes you and your fiancée happy on your wedding day

09/10/2013

Top Wedding Guest Complaints:

Ensure that your guests enjoy your wedding and only have positive remarks by carefully planning in advance and learning from others’ mistakes. You’ve heard the saying “You can’t please everyone”, but there are ways to avoid common complaints.

The DJ/Photographer/Videographer was rude
Find the best service providers for your wedding, and make sure to meet with them beforehand to ensure you are comfortable with them and that your personalities don’t clash. Consider recommendations from other brides and phone pervious brides who made use of them to make sure that they are pleasant to deal with on the wedding day.

The music was too loud
This is a common complaint and one that can easily be avoided. Hire a great DJ or musician who is experienced and focused on creating a fantastic overall experience for you and your guests.

Speeches were too long
Even if your dad wants his moment to shine, try and keep the speeches short. Ideally speeches should last between two and five minutes.

We didn't know anyone at our table
Take the time to carefully plan your seating arrangement, placing guests at tables with others they know. They don’t have to be fast friends, just acquaintances or people with some kind of connection. Try to seat out-of-town guests, who aren't likely to know anyone, with others who have similar interests. If you do find odd couples, try and pair them with people they most likely will be able to associate with. Even though it won’t be possible to please everyone with their seating arrangement, you can try your best by accommodating them with the rules above.

The break between the ceremony and reception was too long
The interval between the ceremony and reception should best be kept as short as possible - not exceeding an hour and a half, unless you are able to provide your guests with some form of entertainment. Many couples opt for a “cocktail hour” whereby guests are treated to cocktails and snacks and can mingle with each other to pass the time.

The centrepiece was distracting
It’s common sense that if a large centrepiece is placed in the middle of a table, the guests will have trouble seeing each other… but brides never learn! They get caught up in the glamorous look of tall, elaborate centrepieces and how they fill out the room so nicely.

I was offended that I had to pay for drinks
Face it, as a guest you should be happy that you are provided with a free meal and entertainment. Although open bar used to be the accepted norm, those days are gone. Some couples will allow for a limited bar (whereby certain drinks up to a certain amount are paid for) and other couples will only provide the table wine and champagne. As a couple you should state in your invitations that it will in fact be a cash bar, so that you don’t have the scenario of some guests leaving their wallets behind.

The bride and groom didn't stop by to say hello
This is a mistake made by couples that can easily be avoided. Ask your photographer to take group photos with each table, this way you will have interaction with all your guests and have an opportunity for a quick greeting, thank you or compliment.

I was never thanked for my gift
This is a big no. With technology nowadays making it so easy to communicate with your guests, couples have no excuse as to why their guests weren’t thanked for their gift. Make sure that when opening your gifts, either yourself or your husband is writing down what gift you got together with the recipient’s name. Be sure to send out thank you notes as soon as you return from honeymoon.

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