09/08/2026
There was a cake that nearly made me quit.
Years ago, before With HÄRT had become what it is today, a mom walked into my little bakery.
She asked if I could make birthday cakes for her daughter.
Her little girl had severe egg and dairy allergies and had never been able to eat her own birthday cake.
How could I possibly say no?
At the time, those cakes baked in ice cream cones were everywhere, and she wanted them decorated as little unicorns.
I had never made cake cones before. I'd never even worked with fondant. My knowledge and skills were still very limited.
So I spent days making tiny fondant ears, horns and eyes. I baked every cone by hand and even DIY'd my own boxes so they could stand upright for collection.
I was so proud of them.
I put them in the fridge, went home, and came back at 4am the next morning.
I opened the fridge...
and every single one had collapsed. 😟
The moisture from the fridge had softened the cones. They were beyond saving.
The mom was due to collect them at 8am.
I remember sitting on the bakery floor in tears.
I felt like I had let that little girl down.
That was the day I genuinely questioned whether I was cut out for this.
Looking back now, I realise something.
Every baker has cakes that never make it to Instagram.
Every business owner has moments where they wonder if they're good enough.
The difference is what you do next.
I got up.
I started again.
I honestly don't know how I pulled it off... I think I've conveniently blanked that part out of my memory. 😅
But somehow, I did.
And that one heartbreaking morning became one of the reasons I obsess over testing, learning and never settling for "good enough."
Today, we make thousands of cakes, pastries and bakes every year.
But I still think about that little girl.
And I still think about the lessons The Gypsy Kitchen taught me, because man... there were MANY. 😅
Because she reminded me of something I never want to forget:
What we make isn't just cake.
Sometimes, it's someone's first chance to feel included.
And sometimes, getting it right means being willing to start all over again.
That's the HÄRT way. ❤️