08/31/2026
YOU CANāT
All my life, Iāve been told I canāt. And I know that experience is not unique to me. We all go through our life being told that we canāt for one reason or another - weāre not smart enough, tall enough, good-looking enough, clever enough, funny enough, charming enough, strong enough, focused enough, the list goes on...
I was lucky. My parents believed in fully supporting me and my decisions, so I learned that just because someone tells me I canāt doesnāt mean they get to decide whether I can.
I do.
So when I was told that you canāt hold laminated pastries in a proofer all morning to bake as needed, I didnāt listen.
When people told me a bakery being on the third floor wouldnāt work because, āHow would anyone find you?ā I didnāt listen.
āShouldnāt I go to culinary school first?ā
I kept following my heart and my vision.
As a business owner, you get told no all day long. This week has been a tough one. Weāve been surrounded by a lot of that isnāt the way things are done, you canāt ask us for that, you should accept things the way they are, and you should do it the way everyone else does.
It drives me up the wall.
Thankfully, weāve also surrounded ourselves with a team that may not always know if we can, but theyāre game to try. If it works, then weāve grown and stretched what weāre capable of. If it doesnāt, we learn something and move on.
My latest little win? Our 25+ year-old espresso machine broke. We were told we should toss it and buy a new one. We decided to fix it instead. The first repair didnāt do it. We dug deeper, found a bigger problem, replaced the boiler, and got that old machine running again. It worked.
But even if it hadnāt, Iād still be proud that we tried. See the story here.
I guess Iām writing this for somewhat selfish reasons today. I needed to remind myself that I can. To keep on trucking. To trust the vision. To not let a week full of people telling us what we canāt do convince me that theyāre right.
And maybe somebody reading this needs the reminder too.
You can.
Come join us at the bakeshop, my altar and living proof that we can. Weāre open regular hours 7am-2pm for Labor day weekend!