02/14/2023
Positivity post! I'm happy to say that friend and I have made the space and energy between us right. We both acted way out of character and took things that we have going on in our lives out on one another. On Sunday, we were able to hug, cry and laugh together while enjoying human connection with grace and understanding for one another.
Sometime we all need to take a step back, realize that we aren't perfect and neither is anyone else. Everyone has something going on and it might not always be noticable on the surface.
Some people have things like anxiety that might make it difficult to speak on something in a moment; some have things like depression that causes everything to hit hard and others have issues with regulating emotions which can lead to unbecoming words being used against others.
Sadly, the world we are in pays far more attention to "drama", turmoil and negativity than it does to understanding and peace. We want to put our opinions into things that we don't know all the details about. We take a snippet of something negative and run with it.
Even still, people are trying to keep the negativity going and I still, truly do not care because in our REAL small town, in our REAL lives, H and I are good! THAT'S what matters to us. If anyone outside of our interaction is still carrying their torches and pitchforks for H or myself... please find something to be happy about if it can't be the positivity here.
