07/09/2017
In late April I took a 'I need to get away trip' to New York. During my visit I road tripped to Massachusetts to visit my Nana's grave. It was a beautiful and reflective ride through Connecticut and Rhode Island. I hadn't been back to Massachusets since my Nana passed in 2012 so I made it a point to make that drive while on the East Coast. When I arrived at the cemetary, on a Sunday mind you, there were no grounds keepers or anyone that could've guided me to the placement of her headstone. I vaguely remembered from the funeral in 2012 where she'd been laid, marked by a young tree on the corner of the section she was in. Initially, I had driven down the road that I knew would lead me to her, but became flustered that I couldn't find her immediately, so I started to panic. I contacted a local aunt who made calls to help me find her, an aunt in California, and a few other people. Sadly, no one had information to help me find her. I was on my own, with half a coffee (which I don't normally drink), and two Dunkin Donuts in my gut. I prayed to her to help me find her. After approximately 45 minutes, I FOUND HER!!!! Her spirit guided me to her unvisited headstone, surrounded by weeds and a bit of moss filling in some of the letters of her name, and the names of my uncles. I cried like a baby, cleaned up the area, removed the moss, placed flowers, and spent some time with my Nana. East Coast trip fulfilled! To date, there has not been another woman who has touched my heart like her. I miss her terribly! Today is her 100th birthday!! Happy birthday, Nana!!! I LOVE YOU!!!