09/30/2025
✨ Coach Kizzy Speaks ✨
Anybody that comes into your life must be 𝑸𝑼𝑨𝑳𝑰𝑭𝑰𝑬𝑫!!!
Stop allowing just anything and everything to attach itself to you without a process. A job requires qualifications. A loan requires qualifications. Even a driver’s license requires qualifications. Yet some of us are giving out front-row seats to our lives without even checking credentials!
💡 Here’s the truth:
When you don’t set a standard, life will set one for you — and it will always be lower than what God intended. You are not junk, so stop letting junk enter your atmosphere.
⚖️ Faith Perspective:
Even Jesus chose His disciples intentionally. He prayed before He picked. He didn’t just let anyone walk with Him. That’s your model. Pray before you allow access. Test before you trust. Observe before you open the door. A discerning process must take place — because not everyone is assigned to walk with you.
🍉 Analogy – Thumping the Melon:
Think about when you’re picking out a watermelon. You don’t just grab the first one you see. You thump it, you listen for the right sound, you check for ripeness. Why? Because you want the best fruit. The same goes for people in your life — you’ve got to “thump the melon.” Test their spirit, check their character, and see if they’re ripe enough to add value to your journey. Not every melon makes it home, and not every person deserves a place in your life.
🔥 Your Assignment:
Set your standards high — so high that only those aligned with your purpose, destiny, and divine assignment can reach them. When you do, you will discover peace, clarity, and the freedom that comes from being surrounded by people who are QUALIFIED to be in your life.
🗣️ Declaration:
I will no longer hand out access without discernment. I am a child of God, and my life is sacred ground. Only the qualified will have a seat at my table.
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