21/08/2026
My boyfriend, Ryan, surprised me with a beautiful proposal after four years together.
I said yes. Two weeks later, he handed me a prenup. I wasn't offended that he wanted one.
What shocked me was what was inside.
It said that if we divorced, I would leave with almost nothing—even if I stopped working to raise our children.
I asked him why.
He said, “I'm protecting what I've built.”
I told him marriage should protect both people.
He said I was already thinking about divorce.
I told him I couldn't marry someone who expected me to sacrifice my career for our future children while simultaneously protecting himself from that sacrifice.
Now the wedding is on hold.
His family says I'm being unreasonable.
My mother says I'm smart to read the agreement carefully.
Would you sign a prenup that heavily protected your partner's assets, or would you walk away from the marriage?