19/09/2024
Just Because Your Is Not Your Chosen!!!
It's Baffling How, After A Breakup, Some People Immediately Feel Like They've Entered A Raceβan Unspoken Competition To Determine "Who's Doing Better." Suddenly, It's A Countdown To Who Comes Out On Top Of The Other, Like:
βlet's See If You'll Become More Successful Than Me...β
βlet's See If You'll Marry A Woman That Will Be Prettier Than Meβ¦β
βlet's See If You'll Marry A Husband That Has More Money Than Meβ¦β
βlet's See If You Won't Have Difficulty Having Kidsβ
βlet's See If Your Husband Won't Cheat On You One Dayβ¦β
"Let's See How Long Your New Relationship Will Last..."
Hold On A Secondβwho Appointed You The Judge Of Someone Else's Future?
Honestly, It's Embarrassing.
Instead Of Obsessing Over Your EX, How About Focusing On Yourself Before Life Passes You By?
Itβs As If Life Becomes A Never-Ending Quest To Outshine Your EX.
You Start Checking In On Them Secretly, Hoping To See How Well Or Preferably How Poorly Theyβre Doing, And When You Feel Like You're "Winning," Thereβs This Strange Sense Of Satisfaction, Like You've Finally Won Some Imaginary Battle.
Mission Accomplished, High-Five, Congratulations, You Did It. ππ
But Thatβs Exactly Where The Shame Lies.
Hereβs The Truth:
Strive To Be The Best Version Of Yourself β Not Because You Broke Up With Someone, Or They Broke Up With Youβ But Because You Owe It To Yourself.
If I Ever Saw My EX Struggling, I'd Break Down And Cry.π
Imagine Driving A Highlander, Only To See Your EX Hawking Goods On The Street. In My Head, Iβd Picture Myself Stopping, Knocking Over Everything She's Selling, And Doing Whatever It Takes To Help Her Get Back On Their Feet.
Okay, That Last Part Was Just A Movie Playing In My Head... π€£π
But Seriously, Thereβs No Joy In Watching Someone, Especially An EX β Fall Short Of Their Potential Just Because Things Didnβt Work Out Between You Two.
Stop The Unconscious Toxicity And Witchcraft
You Deserve Better But Let Go Of The Competition.
Repent O !!!
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