點睛塔羅/Touched Vision Tarot Reading

點睛塔羅/Touched Vision Tarot Reading 线上塔罗占卜
Online-based Tarot Reading

这里静默得太久,显得有些荒芜。其实我始终在这里,只是生活突然转弯,发生了一些变动,无暇打理杂草丛生的社群。感谢那些保持联络的朋友,让我依然能在星月交辉的夜晚,为他们铺开塔罗的星图。自从人工智能充斥生活的每个角落,我们开始用最刁钻的问题测试它...
22/07/2025

这里静默得太久,显得有些荒芜。其实我始终在这里,只是生活突然转弯,发生了一些变动,无暇打理杂草丛生的社群。感谢那些保持联络的朋友,让我依然能在星月交辉的夜晚,为他们铺开塔罗的星图。

自从人工智能充斥生活的每个角落,我们开始用最刁钻的问题测试它的边界。用AI解读塔罗,就像给显微镜装上镜头——它能释出每张牌卡的含义,却无法读懂浪漫。在充满灵感的世界里,1+1从来就不等于2。答案是什么,取决于灵感。真正的占卜是解牌人用直觉编织的捕梦网。当叹息轻轻落在牌面上,那些数字无法量化的情绪波动,才是塔罗最珍贵的部分。 有些客户与我的缘分很浅,有些却可以细水长流,这也是宇宙非常精妙的安排。

有缘的相聚是福报,勉强的际会只不过是消耗彼此的能量而已。愿我们都能在属于自己的节气里,听见生命拔节的声音。

This space has been quiet for too long, like an untended garden. But I never really left—life simply took me down an unexpected path for a while. To those who kept reaching out, thank you. I'm still here, ready to unfold Tarot's wisdom under the same stars when our paths align.

The age of AI has us all testing boundaries. An algorithm can analyse Tarot like a scholar parsing scripture—it knows every definition, but cannot feel the hush between words where real meaning lives. True divination isn't arithmetic; it's the unspoken understanding when two people lean over the same cards, where a shared breath shifts the interpretation.

Some consultations are brief exchanges; others unfold into ongoing dialogues where each reading builds upon the last. These are never random encounters, but meaningful connections where energy flows both ways. May we honour these serendipitous meetings, and find blessing in every authentic encounter.

人生真的很奇妙。我知道自己接下来该怎么前进,但无法马上割舍旧事物,老天便安排了各种推波助澜的小剧场,推着我继续走下去。在宇宙的祝福下,我想我又向自己的人生使命更进一步了。在职十余年,我有很多时候都不知道自己的未来是什么样子的。是在同一个地方...
10/03/2024

人生真的很奇妙。我知道自己接下来该怎么前进,但无法马上割舍旧事物,老天便安排了各种推波助澜的小剧场,推着我继续走下去。在宇宙的祝福下,我想我又向自己的人生使命更进一步了。在职十余年,我有很多时候都不知道自己的未来是什么样子的。是在同一个地方安然退休?还是在同一个体制内调职,写写专案,还是继续深造?昨夜在餐桌上,我向家人表述了我想要往灵性方向探索,并且有一些把握可以不让自己饿死的想法,结果马上迎来了父亲极为紧张的反应。他开始拒绝旅行建议,列举身边老友逐渐掉队离别的案例,更把自己日思夜想的寻根念头抛诸脑后。虽然他是我的父亲,但他显然还是一个相当年轻的灵魂。这也是我这辈子其中一个课题—灵修的路其实没办法大家一起走。我无法完全安抚他的躁动不安,只能摆出老神在在的态度不与他共舞。我也不想给他带来躁动,正如我不想惊动与我默契极佳的工作伙伴。然而没有断舍离,就不会有空间让新的光照射进来。

用Matrix的语言来说,我选择了红药丸。我的使命是帮助迷失的人,解读他们的难题,提供他们突破的勇气。频率对上的,会持续与我共振;对不上的,我们就此告别。在这个多重宇宙,其实各种结局都有,只等我们把频率提高,才能安住在自我实现的世界里,直到下一个关卡的大门开启。

第99次杀死大魔王的人,是时候现身了。

Life is truly amazing. I know how I should move forward, but I can't immediately let go of the old things. So, heaven arranges all sorts of small dramas that nudge me to keep going. With the blessings of the universe, I feel I have taken another step toward my life's mission. Having worked for more than ten years in the sector, there have been many times when I didn't know what my future would look like. Would I retire in the organisation? Or would I transfer within the same system, working on projects after projects, or further my graduate studies? Last night at the dinner table, I expressed to my family my desire to explore the spiritual path and had some confidence that I wouldn't starve myself. Immediately, I received a very nervous reaction from my father. He began to reject travel suggestions, listing cases of old friends around him gradually falling behind and parting ways, and even put aside his long-held thoughts of seeking roots. Although he is my father, he is obviously still a very young soul. This is also one of the topics of my life—the path of spiritual practice is something that can't be walked together by everyone. I couldn't completely calm his restlessness, so I could only show a calm attitude and not argue with him. I don't want to create chaos for him, just as I don't want to disturb my work partners. However, without letting go, there won't be space for new light to come in.

In the language of Matrix, I have chosen the red pill. My mission is to help the lost, interpret their difficulties, and provide them with the courage to break through. Those whose frequencies align will resonate with me; those whose frequencies don't will part ways. In this multiverse, various endings exist, waiting for us to raise our frequencies, so we can reside in the world of self-realisation until the gate to the next level opens.

Those who have killed the demon king 99 times, it time to show yourself please.

练习显化生命中的小确幸在新加坡工作,每个周末才回新山一趟的朋友们都知道,如今的火车票是多么难买到。每次一开票,抢票员就以迅雷不及掩耳的速度把整半年份的票一扫而空,所以我们这些慢半拍的散客都不敢妄想在周末买到票。但其实妄想是多么可怕的想法,因...
13/01/2024

练习显化生命中的小确幸

在新加坡工作,每个周末才回新山一趟的朋友们都知道,如今的火车票是多么难买到。每次一开票,抢票员就以迅雷不及掩耳的速度把整半年份的票一扫而空,所以我们这些慢半拍的散客都不敢妄想在周末买到票。但其实妄想是多么可怕的想法,因为我们自认不可能所以就不存有任何幻想。不存幻想,又哪来的机会呢?这个周末,我没有在周五晚回家,所以我排了4组占卜。占卜完毕,我想应该尝试一下还有没有买到火车票的机会。毕竟算了4组,我实在很累。结果皇天不负有心人,我竟然在我最想要的时间段发现两张退票。二话不说,我马上把这小确幸给拿下了。我很感恩,我的客户都保持同频,大家能一直相互关照。在我询问可否给予反馈的时候都义不容辞地帮我在脸书上留言了。加上买到火车票的小确幸,我的喜悦指数瞬间上涨!

新的一年,你有新的打算吗?一步一脚印,我在耕耘我的2024年,期望将生命的方向摆正。你呢?

Mastering Life's Small Wins

Working in Singapore, my weekend trips to JB always involved the challenge of securing train tickets. The ticket game is tough, with agents clearing out the next six months' worth in a blink. Slowpokes like me hardly dare dream of weekend tickets. But dismissing dreams is a scary habit; no dreams, no chances. This weekend, I skipped heading home on Friday night, I slotted in 4 rounds of Tarot Readings for my clients. After the readings, I thought, why not try for a train ticket? Four rounds, and I was pretty beat. Luck favoured the bold – found two canceled tickets exactly when I wanted. No hesitation; I grabbed that little win. Feeling loved and blessed, my clients synced with me, supporting each other all this while. When I asked if they could leave reviews on my FB page, they happily agreed, giving very positive feedback. Now with the small joy of getting that train ticket, my happiness skyrocketed!

New year, new plans for you? I'm taking 2024 step by step, aligning life's compass. How about you?

还有几天就是2024年了,你开始规划明年的生活了吗?其实这几年来我都一直处于一种不太公开告诉别人我会塔罗占卜的状态,所接的案子都是身边朋友介绍,或者是已经占卜过的客户给我推荐的。非常感恩大家的推荐,我的客户们有的掌握了人生的胜利法则,自信地...
29/12/2023

还有几天就是2024年了,你开始规划明年的生活了吗?其实这几年来我都一直处于一种不太公开告诉别人我会塔罗占卜的状态,所接的案子都是身边朋友介绍,或者是已经占卜过的客户给我推荐的。非常感恩大家的推荐,我的客户们有的掌握了人生的胜利法则,自信地掌控生命走向了;也有的时不时会回来加强自己的信念,在下抉择之前再三推敲复盘的。无论是哪种情况,大家都对人生的方向认真地负责了。惭愧的是,我一直把自己放在舒适圈中,即使已经感觉疲态,还是每日上班下班,没有真正地规划未来该往什么方向进发。

一直到近日,我才知道什么是生命的召唤。我并不是一个通灵人,所以我没办法感知三维以外的世界。但是我最近频密接收到强力打扰我生活作息的讯息,看来宇宙真的急坏了。我从来没有感受到高我或指导灵的气急败坏,这一连串的故意还真的把我给笑死。连续许多天,像鬼打墙一样一天内反复看见同一组天使数字,让我真切意识到我这个NPC获得任务密码了,是时候出发了。然后我就读到了一句话:“让今天的我,为明天写剧本。”我的剧本要改写了,这是我收到的讯息。为了确认我的讯息准确无误,我还找了其他占卜师来确认这件事。果然,我该准备“出道”了。2024年是地球灵性大爆发的一年,我们都将面对许多冲击。希望明年我能开始帮助更多需要指引的朋友们,我们一起往美好的生活愿景中前进!

As we're about to dive into 2024, have you started sketching out your game plan for the upcoming year? Over the past few years, I've quietly delved into the world of tarot readings, mostly through referrals or recommendations from clients who've sought my insights. Am truly grateful for the trust and endorsements received! Some clients have embraced life's principles, confidently steering towards their goals. Others revisit, reflecting and reassessing before making decisions – a thoughtful approach, no doubt.

But for me, I've been hanging in my comfort zone, clocking in and out without a clear roadmap. Recently, life threw me a curveball, bombarding me with messages that disrupted my routine. Not some mystical awakening, but more like the universe is blowing up my phone with messages, like it's got places to be.

For days, encountering the same set of angel numbers repeatedly got me thinking – as the NPC, I've finally received a mission, and it's time to embark on the journey. Then I came across this phrase: 'Let today's me write the script for tomorrow.' My script is due for a rewrite. To verify the accuracy of this information, I sought confirmation from other diviners. Indeed, it's time for me to make a 'debut.' 2024 is marked as a year of spiritual awakening for Earth, and together, we'll face various challenges. Here's hoping that in the coming year, I can begin assisting more friends in need of guidance as we collectively stride towards a more promising vision of life!

如果人生来到一个低谷,其实正是人生走上坡的机会。但我们往往执著于拥有的,所以即使背着沉重的行囊,说什么都不肯将它们放下。带着牵绊往下走就会摔跤打滚啊,你一边翻滚一边哭泣,怎么样都不愿意站起来往上走,所以人生在黑暗中一直看不见曙光。我们本来无...
04/06/2023

如果人生来到一个低谷,其实正是人生走上坡的机会。但我们往往执著于拥有的,所以即使背着沉重的行囊,说什么都不肯将它们放下。带着牵绊往下走就会摔跤打滚啊,你一边翻滚一边哭泣,怎么样都不愿意站起来往上走,所以人生在黑暗中一直看不见曙光。

我们本来无一物。你走的时候也它们都必须留下。现在就练习留下,给自己全新的机会,迈开你nothing to lose的步伐,不好吗?最近接到的占卜都和此类问题有关。事情已经发生,而且你对于翻盘这件事是一筹莫展,那就直面自己的内心吧。如果是羞愧是狂躁都没关系,反正和自己对话是极为私密的一件事。你只需要一个人独处的时间,问问自己可以不逃避了吗?可以给自己上坡的机会了吗?心灵的成长真的很重要。内心处理好,灵魂就会强大。如果需要帮助,可以看书,寻找辅导员的帮助,甚至是展开身心灵的探索,从调理身体到处理情绪开始,让灵魂自由。

每次占卜到这类案子都默默为案主祈祷,你们的上坡路就在身后。不要哭泣了,开始你只会更好的旅行吧!

If life throws you into a slump, it's actually a chance for a comeback. But the thing is, we tend to cling to what we've got. So, even lugging around a bunch of baggage, we're stubborn about putting it down. Tackling the downhill with all that weight, you're bound to trip and tumble. You're rolling and crying, hesitant to stand up and move forward. You are keeping life stuck in the shadows.

We start with nothing. When it's time to go, everything stays behind. How about trying the art of leaving, giving yourself a fresh start, and taking those uphill steps with nothing to lose? Sound good? Lately, the readings I've been getting all circle back to these kinds of issues. The events have already happened, and you feel helpless about turning things around. In that case, confront your inner self. Shame or restlessness, it doesn't matter. All you need is some solo time to ask yourself, can you stop avoiding it now? Can you give yourself that uphill shot? Spiritual growth is seriously crucial. Sort out your inner self, and your soul will toughen up. If you need a hand, read some books, chat with a counselor, or dive into the whole mind-body exploration. From body tweaks to emotional handling, set that soul free.

Whenever I get readings like this, I quietly send good vibes for the querent. Your uphill journey is right around the corner. Enough tears, it's time to start your journey to getting better!

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你相信平行宇宙的存在吗?你觉得这个宇宙有多少个你,多少个我呢?最近马来西亚国际巨星拿督杨紫琼勇夺多个国际大奖,还成为奥斯卡首个亚洲影后,正因为她在《妈的多重宇宙》里表现出色。《妈的多重宇宙》讲述的就是平行宇宙的概念。宇宙中,正有千千万万个你...
25/03/2023

你相信平行宇宙的存在吗?你觉得这个宇宙有多少个你,多少个我呢?最近马来西亚国际巨星拿督杨紫琼勇夺多个国际大奖,还成为奥斯卡首个亚洲影后,正因为她在《妈的多重宇宙》里表现出色。《妈的多重宇宙》讲述的就是平行宇宙的概念。宇宙中,正有千千万万个你、我、他,在各自的世界里扮演着不同的角色。但其实我们绝对能自由切换,只是平凡如你我,在庸庸碌碌的人生旅途中,怎会有这般觉悟?绝大部分人都在权衡了得失利益以后,选择了最安全的路线,并且维持了一贯的态度,直到终老。

每个占卜师都会属于自己的信念。我的信念和《妈的多重宇宙》是不谋而合的。我们其实都能掌握人生的走向,但我们已经习惯沿着一贯的路线行走,一旦乖离“正常”,我们便不知所措,竭尽所能将自己放回熟悉的人生地图中,嘴里恢复琐碎的叨念,才放下心头大石。也正因如此,我在占卜的时候对询问者说事情在转念以后会有不同的发展时,有者感到失望。他们想从我的嘴里听到他们应该怎么做。但我从来不告诉他们,哪个选择是比较好的。我可以帮他们算几遍,透过不同的想法或行为可以显化怎样的未来,但是我无法指使他们朝哪个方向走去。我们在千千万万个平行宇宙中来回切换,即使有的人自此就要与我切断联系,我也是会这样说的。你认为的不准,也可能是你切换到另一个平行宇宙中去了。但大部分情况底下,我们的脾性是比较难改过来的,所以依照你在这个时空的直觉所抽取出来的牌组,能有一定的逻辑。道理就是这么简单。

最近我放了一个假,北上遇到一个非常年轻的塔罗牌爱好者。他说他在收集案例,只要继续练习,确保自己能有100%的准确率,就马上准备塔罗师的考试。当然我无法说些什么,他的热忱是我很欣赏的,但是能百分之百准确这种信念是我无法认同的,就因为妈的,(我们有)多重宇宙啊!

Do you buy into the whole parallel universe thing? Ever wonder how many versions of yourself are out there in the cosmos? Recently, a big star from our homeland, Michelle Yeoh, won some big awards. She even got the first-ever Asian Oscar, all because of her great acting in 'Everything Everywhere All at Once.' It's this movie delving into the whole parallel universe concept. Picture this – a gazillion versions of you, me, and everyone else, each playing their own roles in their little world. And get this, we've got the freedom to hop between them. But let's be real, in our day-to-day grind, who's got that kind of awareness? Most folks stick to the same old routine till the curtain falls.

Every fortune teller's got their own set of beliefs. Mine aligns with 'Everything Everywhere All at Once.' We do have a say in where our lives go, but we're so used to sticking to the script. Step off the beaten path, and we're like, 'What now?' desperately trying to get back on familiar ground, throwing around petty complaints to ease the mind. So, when I drop the bomb during a reading that things will shape up differently if you change your mindset, some folks get bummed. They want me to spell out what's the better choice. But here's the deal – I can sketch out scenarios, show how different moves play out in the future, but I can't point them down a specific road. We're flipping through countless parallel universes. Even if someone decides to ghost me, I'd still say the same. That 'wrong' reading you think you got? Maybe you just stepped into another universe.

So, I took a breather recently and bumped into this super young tarot enthusiast up north. He's all about collecting cases, practicing like there's no tomorrow, aiming for a 100% accuracy rate before hitting the tarot practitioner exam. Can't rain on his parade, though. I dig the passion, but the whole 100% accuracy thing? Nah, not my thing. Why? Because, come on, we've got 'Everything Everywhere All at Once!'

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人生要升级,要身体力行。极力推荐这支影片给有缘人,希望大家都能一起迈向幸福的人生!

To level up in life, you gotta walk the talk. I highly recommend this movie to anyone who's in sync with it, hoping we all can take a step toward a happier life together!

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既然都开写了,我想顺便分享一下自己的感悟。其实我一直都忙碌于工作,主要是发生了太多需要花费时间解决的问题。这些问题不在策划范围之内,所以浪费了很多时间和心力,还拖慢了原本工作的进度。但让我非常感恩的是我总是得到贵人相助,无论是帮助解答疑问还...
29/12/2022

既然都开写了,我想顺便分享一下自己的感悟。其实我一直都忙碌于工作,主要是发生了太多需要花费时间解决的问题。这些问题不在策划范围之内,所以浪费了很多时间和心力,还拖慢了原本工作的进度。但让我非常感恩的是我总是得到贵人相助,无论是帮助解答疑问还是帮我一力承担,我除了真心感谢并且祝福这些对我非常慷慨的贵人,我真的无以回报。但是我似乎忘记我的显化能力越来越强,当我非常感恩并且为得到贵人相助这一件事感到喜欢,宇宙就会让它持续发生。

我的同事们都开始皱眉—我的运气也太差了,怎么接二连三地,总有许多麻烦找上我。我能应对,但应对的同时也感到莫名其妙。当中我摸索到一个共同点—我在解决问题的同时总是有非常可靠的助力帮我一把,这是妥妥的吸引力法则+显化的combo set!为了把贵人推送给我,我必须不断遇上麻烦和问题!我的妈呀我发觉这一点的时候我为此翻了几十遍白眼。感恩要有个限度,好的我学会了,老天。

所以许愿的时候要搞清楚自己究竟想要什么。我们一旦开始了计划,付诸行动加上意念的加持,宇宙就会感应到并且给我们发送结果。显化就是这么一回事,但记得要好好许愿,不要过了头哦!

Now that I'm writing, I want to share a bit of what I've been thinking. Work's been busy, with lots of unexpected problems. They weren't part of my plan, so it took up a bunch of time and energy, slowing down what I wanted to get done. But what I'm thankful for is that I always get help when I need it, whether it's answering questions or someone taking some of the work off my plate. I appreciate and wish the best for these generous folks who've helped me – I really can't thank them enough. But here's the thing: I forgot that my ability to manifest is getting stronger. When I'm truly thankful for the help I get, the universe keeps making it happen.

My coworkers are starting to wonder – my luck seems pretty bad, with one problem after another coming my way. I can handle it, but it's kind of strange. What I noticed is that every time I'm dealing with a problem, there's always someone reliable helping me out. It's like a mix of the Law of Attraction and Manifestation! To attract these helpful people, it seems I have to keep running into challenges and issues! Good grief, it took me dozens of eye rolls to realize this. Being thankful is great, but I can't overdo it. I got it now, Universe!

So, when you make a wish, be clear about what you really want. Once you start a plan, take action, and think about it a lot, the universe picks up on it and sends you results. That's how manifestation works, but remember to make sensible wishes – don't go too crazy!

年末。逮到请长假的机会,所以请了两个礼拜的年假呆在JB。知道我回来的人也陆陆续续找上门来算一算明年的运程。昨晚和朋友们在某餐厅吃完饭就开始占卜,周围的几个服务生围着我们打转。一桌人都感到很不好意思,深怕我们占用了他们的桌子,接下来的客人是不...
29/12/2022

年末。逮到请长假的机会,所以请了两个礼拜的年假呆在JB。知道我回来的人也陆陆续续找上门来算一算明年的运程。昨晚和朋友们在某餐厅吃完饭就开始占卜,周围的几个服务生围着我们打转。一桌人都感到很不好意思,深怕我们占用了他们的桌子,接下来的客人是不是没位子用餐。结果两个貌似非常年轻的服务生胆怯地问我可不可以也占卜一下,我们才发现原来是想问事。

朋友们离开以后,我才发现这两位服务生来自缅甸,所以便用英语跟他们沟通。年轻的缅甸女孩才19岁,刚来马来西亚两个月。她似乎非常担心父母的状况,只想要知道他们好不好。从牌组中看得出家中经济不太稳定,所以父母都在工作。然而父亲的工作实在太辛苦了,需要注意健康否则后来会花时间养病。女生听得入神,突然就哭了。我让她再问一题,看得出会有男生前来保护她。年轻的女孩微微一笑,空气中充满着娇羞的气息。旁边的服务生不敢问问题,我示意让她尽管问。一问之下发现她才24岁就已经结婚。先生待业中,她每天上班就在怀疑他在家干嘛。我把牌意解释一遍,她大力点头—对啊!不知道每天在家做什么!哼!

非常可爱的服务生,全程用她们最真诚的方式表示答谢:我很不要脸地收下了两杯清水和一块蛋糕。其实我非常理解在海外工作的心情。我何尝不是如此。我们都要珍惜当下,所有和家人朋友共度的每分每秒。时光流逝,要珍惜眼前人啊!

At the end of the year, I took a nice two-week break in JB. Friends who knew I was back dropped by for a quick chat about what's coming up in the new year. Last night, after dinner with friends, we did some fortune-telling, and a couple of waitstaff were curious and joined in. We found out they were from Myanmar, so we switched to English to talk.

The young Burmese girl, just 19 and in Malaysia for two months, was worried about her parents back home. From the cards, it seemed like their money situation wasn't great, and her dad had a tough job, so he needed to take care of his health. She got emotional, and we learned there'd be a guy coming into her life to look out for her. She blushed. The other waiter didn't ask questions, but I told her to go ahead. Turns out, she's 24 and married. I could read that her husband's jobless. I explained the cards, and she couldn't stop nodding her head -- she was clueless about what he's up to at home every day!

Those nice waitstaff thanked me with two glasses of water and a slice of cake. I can relate what it's like working abroad, that's why I feel blessed to spend time with family and friends. Time flies, so let's appreciate the people around us!

很感恩过去两年我能以没有定价的方式服务大众,得到很多客户的反馈,也增加了很多磨练的机会。接下来的两个月(7-8月)因为要继续进修,我将不会接受占卜预约。希望这两个月的学习能让我获得更多方面的知识,之后能提供更多元化的服务!希望大家都生活开心...
16/06/2022

很感恩过去两年我能以没有定价的方式服务大众,得到很多客户的反馈,也增加了很多磨练的机会。接下来的两个月(7-8月)因为要继续进修,我将不会接受占卜预约。希望这两个月的学习能让我获得更多方面的知识,之后能提供更多元化的服务!希望大家都生活开心哦!

I am truly grateful that, for the past two years, even without fixed prices, I have continued to attract clients. The positive feedback has been instrumental in my growth. I would like to announce that for July and August, I will not be taking appointments as I'll be dedicating time to polishing my card reading skills. I hope to learn more from the masters and expand my service offerings. Wishing everyone a joyful time ahead!

我们应该在什么情况底下做出改变?只要我们觉得事情不如我们预期这般发展,我们就转变,这样算是改变还是逃避命运?我想插播谈一谈什么是臣服。从前的我很抗拒臣服的概念,觉得人定胜天,为什么我必须对命运臣服?但是这些年我发觉改变的基础在于臣服。它们是...
12/06/2022

我们应该在什么情况底下做出改变?只要我们觉得事情不如我们预期这般发展,我们就转变,这样算是改变还是逃避命运?我想插播谈一谈什么是臣服。从前的我很抗拒臣服的概念,觉得人定胜天,为什么我必须对命运臣服?但是这些年我发觉改变的基础在于臣服。它们是互相牵制的关系,缺一不可。

就拿我自己作为例子吧。我曾经苦练跆拳道十几年,也屡屡在赛事上获奖,所以曾经感叹如果失去自由使用双脚的能力,我应该会痛苦得活不下去吧。但是前几年,我双膝的半月板都撕裂了。这对运动员来说是非常可怕的事。我无法接受自己必须放弃运动的事实,所以在接受物理治疗的同时,每天继续进行激烈的练习。膝盖在经过训练以后发生肿胀,经常产生积水,我连正常的路都没办法走好。然而我的忍痛能力极强,所以我用意志力顶着着高强度锻炼,即使双膝情况严重到无法正常弯曲与蹲下,我也不让自己在日常生活中表现出完全失去膝盖力量的样子。我怨恨自己必须受困于双膝给我带来的困扰,也曾考虑接受无法承诺复原的手术治疗,但是因为工作的关系,我离开了原先的环境,也让自己停止训练。好长一段时间,膝盖不见复原。我发现我必须将我是优秀运动员的想法放下,才有可能获得复原的空间。我必须臣服于我不能恢复成受伤前的状态的事实。只要我一天不臣服,我就会动念想要恢复高强度训练。我接受这个命运的安排,降低训练要求,将时间花在其他事情上,好好推进人生的另一篇章,我的改变从这个时刻才算开始。

从放弃妄想从物理治疗、肌力训练等方式让自己完全恢复,到找寻其他领域的发展,这是我的领悟,也是我的改变。我没有逃避,这就是我学会臣服的过程。如果我轻易放弃运动,我应该会带着遗憾过日子。就是要努力尝试面对才会获得真正的臣服,之后的改变才会是心甘情愿的。希望这一则小故事能传递一些讯息:所谓转变,必须是在勇敢面对疾风以后。太轻易地改变自己的心意或作法,是不是一种逃避呢?与大家共享。

When should we consider making changes? Is it a change or an avoidance of destiny when things don't unfold as we anticipate? Let's dive into the idea of surrender, a concept I once resisted. I used to believe that we control our fate, questioning why we should submit to it. Over the years, I've come to understand that the essence of change lies in surrender. They coexist—neither thrives without the other.

Consider my journey. I dedicated over a decade to perfecting my skills in Taekwondo, achieving success in numerous competitions. The thought of losing the ability to freely use my legs was once inconceivable. Yet, a few years ago, I experienced a meniscus tear in both knees, a daunting scenario for any athlete. Unwilling to accept the reality of giving up sports, I persisted in intense training alongside physical therapy. My knees swelled, fluid accumulated, and walking became a challenge. Despite the severity, I pushed through high-intensity exercises, determined not to reveal any signs of knee weakness in my daily life. I resented the limitations imposed by my injured knees and contemplated undergoing surgery with uncertain outcomes. Due to work commitments, I changed my environment, putting my training on hold. For a prolonged period, my knees showed no signs of improvement.

I realized that true recovery required letting go of the notion of being an exceptional athlete. I had to surrender to the fact that returning to my pre-injury state was unlikely. As long as I resisted, thoughts of resuming intense training lingered. Embracing the fate set before me, I adjusted my training expectations, redirected my time to other pursuits, and embarked on a new chapter in life. That's when my authentic transformation began.

From abandoning impractical expectations to exploring alternative avenues of growth, this was my revelation, my transformation. I didn't evade; I learned the art of surrender. Had I easily given up on sports, I would have carried regrets. True surrender comes from courageously facing the challenges. Changing one's mindset or actions too hastily—could that be a form of evasion? Let's find out together.

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