08/09/2026
C H I L D C A R E
Since Daph become aware that my kitchen is just a walk across what (has this year become) our garden, working without interruption is no more.
Childcare is tricky, eh. My mum helps two days a week, and then Daph goes to the Best Childminder in Essex (genuinely, she won an award this summer!) two days a week too. Thing is, the days my mum helps aren’t very structured anymore. Since dad, it’s taken a while to get back into a reliable rhythm of my mum being able to look after Daph. And, now that Daph has worked out how every door opens, where I am, and that I’m just “here”, she just comes and finds me.
It makes working a bit of a multitasking juggle. Not ashamed to say, if she is sat in the kitchen, the iPad becomes my friend because otherwise I really couldn’t get much done. It doesn’t last long, and often I have to bake a few extra biscuits not just to feed her, but so she can “decorate” them herself with the “off cuts”.
This all said, however tricky it is to manage the “mum are you done yet?”, I’m super aware that this time next year, she’ll be at school. She won’t be disturbing me whilst I work, and I think I’m going to miss that. Also, I’m very aware that I’m lucky to often look up from my work bench and see my mum and her running about the garden together.
I’m always interested to know how other people
manage the childcare juggle. Winging it is how I’d best describe my style!