03/04/2025
It’s been a while since I last posted, but since we’re into a new month & new quarter too, I thought I’d explain my absence.. if you’re interested
We’ve had some personal stuff going off in the background, which hasn’t helped one bit
It’s been a trying time for us both, but as the saying goes, ‘when one door closes, another (better) door opens’ & it’s so true.. you never really know what’s behind that new door, but I can assure you, it’s definitely worth a peek
I’ll be honest, I’ve been struggling with some people’s attitudes lately & has made me reconsider some of my life’s choices
From attempts at bartering on price, like a quote is a ‘Vinted’ listing & then not understanding that something would need to come off the design to make the offered amount appropriate… to thinking it’s ok to take up someone’s time with meetings, tweaking quotes multiple times & then disappearing into the ether, not informing that they’ve booked someone else & having to find that out from the venue when you have to ask them if that particular wedding is still going ahead
It’s also proving very hard to deal with the disrespect from people not wanting ‘to pay THAT’ for a chair dressing, 5 minute wedding car journey or wedding cake
So much energy goes into the preparation & production of every part of a wedding.. but the contempt shown for certain skill sets & services is appalling really. In fact I’d go as far to say that it’s downright insulting
Don’t forget, cheap isn’t always good & good isn’t its always cheap.. true on so many levels.
It’s not just the product or service you’re paying for… there’s elements of experience, skills & priceless knowledge weaved in there too.. & not everyone has that level of experience to pass on
Don’t get me wrong, there are a lot of couples I’ve worked & am working with who DO know the value of what we do.. are polite & appreciate for every part of our journey to their wedding day.. the number of disrespectful people was small, but sadly that number is increasing, & that’s what I’m struggling to deal with mentally & emotionally
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