08/28/2026
I WILL DO A LIVE TODAY TO EXPLAIN ALL THE THINGS. THEN MY PHONE IS OFF FOR MOST OF TODAY (I’m still catering shopping and doing things but…it’s on silence for most of the day lol)
But for now… no selling today. HERE IS MY STORY. THE RIGHT NOW STORY.
Just me popping on to say that lately I feel like I have approximately 4,782 things happening at once.
There’s the bakery, events, menus, pricing, catering, classes, frozen meals, Thanksgiving is a comin’, murder mysteries… and somehow I’m also supposed to remember what my kids need, keep my house somewhat functioning, be a wife, a human, and maybe occasionally remember to drink my tea before it goes cold and attempt to see the few friends I have left. 😂
Running a business is honestly wild. The changes in my body (helloooooo cortisol), my sleep (what even is that?) and the way my household runs is constantly shifting and weighing down on me. (This is where my husband gets the biggest shout out in the world…off a root top or mountain or from a plane…like a huge high up “I love you Blake! Thanks for keeping us all alive on the tough weeks!!!”) - cue loud cheers for Blake!!!! Ahhhhhhhhh woot woot!!
I absolutely LOVE this little bakery and everything we’ve built here. But some days I feel like my brain has 47 tabs open and at least 12 of them are frozen. 🤣 I love when people are say to me, you are doing so well eh? Nah, I am pushing hard to make this dream profitable, to pay the bills (mostly) and the team (who also keeps me alive and going- can we get another cheer please!!) with a goal with pay myself someday (I s**t you not).
I text my friends at 6am with a “what the hell am I doing? How much longer can I hang on for? S**t, these jeans are tight now too.” texts, I meet them for coffee and talk it out and they listen and tell me to keep going.
There is a whole crew of support. Just when I think, I can’t, regulars come in and ooooo and ahhh over the case, joke with staff, offer to w**d the patio. Like for real. We get a large catering request, a bunch of people pay cash and we make that one more bill. This is the reality, it’s rough, it’s messy, it’s beautiful, it’s effing hard. It’s my 5th child, it frustrates you and tests you and causes mega stress and anxiety but no matter how hard the day is, the fears of what is to come with each week or season, you wake up in love with it, renewed for 24 more hours.
It’s a wild ride…truly. And I haven’t figured it out yet, nor do I know I want to some days.
Today, I am taking a break.
This is your reminder…take a breather, keep pushing, have a cry, send a text, thank your partner, hug your kids, scream into your pillow, cry again, cuddle your dog, lean on your people, you get it. Just get up, you can do hard things!