03/04/2022
TEN TIPS FOR TODAY'S MARRIED MAN
©️ Jerome Yaovi Onipede.
1. In whatever situation or circumstances you find yourself, always remember that WITH GOD ALL THINGS become Possible for you. Matthew 19:26
2. In the sight of God, your wife is your suitable helper. She is just RIGHT FOR YOU! She is in your life to help you maintain Balance, and Complimentary to you. Now if that is not how she is in your eyes, ask God to show you how He sees her, and He will show you, but you must be open. Genesis 2:18.
3. Don't be ignorant of the fact that God is watching everything happening between your wife and you, especially in the way you are treating her. If you treat her badly, He will no longer accept the offerings of your hands and remove His favour from your life. I am sure no man in his right senses wants to be in that position. Malachi 2:13-14.
4. Live with your wife with understanding, and not disapproval and in disappointment so that when you lift up your face and hands in prayer to God, He will answer you. 1st Peter 3:7.
5. Be assured that EVERYTHING works in Love, and not hate, anger, bitterness, and resentment. Try living in Love with your wife always, and you will see her COME ALIVE to you in a way that DELIGHTS YOU. Kindly go through "1st Corinthians 13" over and over again with an open heart, and with the Help of the Holy Spirit, you will discover that this particular Scripture has Riches hidden in a secret place just like the entire Bible.
6. The way you love your wife should not be according to your taste, standard, opinion or upbringing, but according to THE WAY Jesus Christ Loved The Church, and Gave Himself for Her. Ephesians 5:25.
7. If you find yourself always talking down on your wife, something somewhere is wrong with you. May I advise that you take out time to read DANGEROUS PERSONALITIES written by Joe Navarro. It may help you come to terms with certain behaviours that you are exhibiting that are completely out of character, and you may want to humble yourself to seek confidential professional counselling of which I can be of help when you are ready. Matthew 7:5.
8. Perhaps based on Personality Differences, your wife may occasionally offend you, though not deliberately. Now the Big Question is "How many times should you forgive her when she does, seven times"? NO! But Seventy times Seven Times, which is Four Hundred and Ninety Times. In other words, focus on living a life of Forgiveness and you will never have to struggle with Loving her. Matthew 18:21-22.
9. Always remember to PUT YOUR TRUST IN GOD, because if you do, you will see the manifestations of the Blessings of God in your life, and it will surely impact your marriage. Jeremiah 17:7-8.
10. If you sense you are in a loveless marriage and you are starved of love, start from here: 1. Remember that God has Loved you with an Everlasting Love, meaning He is Loving you right now, and I advise you believe it, and experience His Love for you. 2. He is always drawing you to Himself with His LOVING KINDNESS and that is why you experience His Mercy and Grace on Daily Basis. 3. He continues to extend His Love to you through His FAITHFULNESS. And so FOCUS more on God's Love for and to you, and see your heart begin to pour out love even to a woman that you have thought unworthy of your love. Jeremiah 31:3.
My Wife Lawrenta and I have been together since July 1986, and these are tips we have learnt to practice in Our Loving Friendship with one another.
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