30/07/2026
People say it's hard to make friends as an adult.
And it certainly can be.
But over the past six years, I've made some of the deepest friendships of my life. Friendships that started with a podcast interview, a retreat, or simply reaching out to say, "I love what you're doing."
These women have reminded me that while social media has major downsides when we just scroll, it can also be a place to find people who truly see and get you in your current season of life.
My advice for finding lasting friendship in adulthood?
✨ Find people you can PLAY and laugh with.
✨ People who get excited about your dreams.
✨ And people who don't just accept you, but celebrate you exactly as you are.
Today I'm especially grateful for Adia (), Kara (), Sumer (), Julia (), Sarah (), Samantha (), and Janice (.janicecastro). I could honestly name so many more. (One of the unexpected gifts of my podcast has been meeting the coolest humans.)
I also have lifelong friends I cherish deeply, including some I've known since preschool. But I wanted to share these more recent friendships because they're a reminder that it's never too late to find meaningful connection.
If you've been feeling lonely, please don't lose hope.
Social media can absolutely leave us feeling disconnected. But it can also become a bridge to authentic, life-changing relationships... if we're willing to be vulnerable and risk rejection.
So send the message. ("Wanna be friends?" 😄)
Invite that person to coffee.
Say yes to the Zoom call.
Go to the meetup.
Sign up for the retreat (see what I did there? ;)
All relationships that change our lives begin with one small act of courage.
Happy International Friendship Day to all of my internet friends who became real-life friends. ❤️ (Chicago, Louisiana, and Toronto are all represented in these photos!) I can't wait for our next adventure together.