29/09/2025
They don’t warn you about the first baby.
How the moment you hold them,
a whole new version of you is born too.
No one hands you a manual.
No one tells you which cries mean what.
You just learn as you go
with shaky hands, heavy eyes,
and a heart that suddenly beats outside your body.
They don’t warn you how raw it feels,
to love so fiercely while questioning if you’re enough.
How you’ll cry in the shower,
then wipe your tears and rock them back to sleep
as if you weren’t breaking inside.
They don’t warn you that motherhood
isn’t just about raising a child
it’s about re raising yourself.
Learning patience you never had.
Finding strength you didn’t know existed.
Discovering a love that remakes you
over and over again.
The first baby doesn’t just change your life.
They change you.
Forever.