14/02/2026
Love this so had to share ❤️
🔥 CONTROVERSIAL OPINION INCOMING… 🔥
When life gives you lemons… apparently some people think you’re supposed to buy a better tree. 🍋
But let’s talk about horses for a second.
Not the flashy £50k mover.
Not the 70% regular.
Not the “made for it” combination everyone whispers about at the side of the arena.
I’m talking about the ordinary ones.
The ones people politely overlook.
The ones you get told are “limited.”
You might not be a world-beating rider.
You might not have the flashiest horse.
But you have a goal. So you graft.
Hours and hours.
Early mornings.
Late nights.
Different coaches.
Dents in your bank account.
Slowly… the scores creep up. 61%. 63%. 65%.
Not headline-worthy.
But progress.
Meanwhile, social media is screaming 70%+ like that’s the only thing that counts and the sidelines?
“Oh… that’s ambitious.”
“Is that horse really capable?”
“Interesting choice of test…”
Here’s the controversial bit:
🚨 Not everyone winning at 70% built it from scratch.
Some did and that’s incredible but some started ten steps ahead.
There is NOTHING more powerful than building something people said you couldn’t.
Then one day… you ride that test.
Not first place.
Not a sash.
But a solid score.
Qualification points.
Proof.
But to you and your village?
You’ve won. 🏆
Because you didn’t just beat other combinations.
You beat doubt.
You beat opinion.
You beat the narrative.
So here’s the takeaway:
✨ Stay true to yourself.
✨ Build your village carefully.
✨ Take constructive criticism, ignore the noise.
✨ And if you and your horse aren’t enjoying it… what’s the point?
Dressage (and life) isn’t about looking the part.
It’s about becoming it.
If you’re out there grinding with your “ordinary” horse trying to do extraordinary things… this is your sign to keep going.
Drop a 🐴 and picture in the comments if you’re building, not buying.
Tag your village.
Share this if you resonate with it and also with someone who needs to hear it today. 💛
Picture: This rider is Lauren Bennett and horse Luna and work their socks off to get where they have 😍😍😍