11/05/2025
One of my favourite ads from yesteryear. So much research has shown a connection between children's self esteem and belonging connected to displaying photographs of them in their homes. It's doesn't take a genius to figure out that we feel valued when we see an image of us proudly displayed for everyone to see, everyday.
I actually went to a conference in Adelaide in 2010 where a delegation of young teens got to speak. One of the things they said had a profoundly unexpected impact on them was that their older siblings or cousins had portraits of themselves hanging around their homes but they didn't. They felt left out...unimportant.
I treat my family as my greatest work of art and hang their portraits centre stage (I also have other artwork on the walls but most of it is family). I made a conscious choice to make sure my children and grandchildren are my preferred artwork for display and left the mass-produced decor-driven koala, yak and other framed posters to others.
Even now, my grandchildren still comment on the portraits,
"Who's that?"
"That's mummy when she was a toddler."
"Look how much I've grown."
etc etc.
I have tons of albums with photos in them, (which my grandies occasionally pull out to browse through, and, I'm ashamed to admit, far too many digital files that still hide on my phone and hard drives waiting to be printed and never seen by anyone until I finally get around to it. I've also lost a ton of my daughter's wedding because I hadn't backed them up before my phone went on the fritz. I too am part of the digital overwhelm club, you know, waiting for a “someday” that never seems to come.
Photographs do far more than decorate a wall; they affirm identity, belonging, and importance. That story from the 2010 Adelaide conference really underscores something people often overlook: visibility equals value, especially in a family setting. Children notice what's around them, and what’s not. Seeing themselves represented in the home gives them an anchor, a sense that they matter and are remembered.
Your choice to prioritise family portraits over generic decor isn't just a design preference—it's a powerful act of love. You're curating a living gallery of connection, history, and self-worth. When your family engage with the portraits shows that it's making an impact. The dialogue those photos inspire is part of how stories and legacies are passed on.
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